Goodbye, ilovemazzyandzephyr

I’m reblogging this important news from thedaddycomplex:

Hey, everyone. Shannon of the popular Tumblr parenting blog ilovemazzyandzephyr had to delete her account.

She and her husband discovered someone had pilfered scores of photos of her kids and created an entire fake family with a Facebook page, a Tumblr, everything. She’s freaked out, the police are involved…

Read more here and here.

It’s a scary world, people. You will never see pictures of my kids here for situations just like this.

(reblog) You're Speaking My Language

I am reblogging this from thedaddycomplex:

Now, most toddlers understand complex grammar before they can say it, but my guys speak it, too. They have for quite some time. And I mean complete sentences with correct verb conjugations, gerund forms when necessary, proper pronouns and even the occasional compound preposition.

I don’t think this is because they are extremely intelligent (although, they totally are), but rather because my wife and I never spoke baby talk to them, not even when they were newborns. We never cooed or babbled or made goo-goo noises. From the moment they were born, we spoke to them like they were adults — little, screaming, poopy adults.

We’ve done pretty much the same thing. I think “baby talk” is bad. Talk to your kids like they are the people you want them to be. When they stumble or don’t understand the words, explain it gently.