— Beth, age 4, after offering to pray before a dinner she was expecting to dislike
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| Luke: | [age 8] "First kid there, wins!" |
| Me: | "I guess I won, then." |
| Luke: | "You're not a kid." |
| Beth: | [age 4] "He's one of God's kids!" |
The vast majority of my posts are stories about my kids, or sometimes by or for my kids, but every once in awhile I dust off the Keyboard of All Seriousness and type something different.
I am linking to an old post of mine because birth control still seems to be a hot topic in the U.S. political and media realms. In March 2012, I wrote:
Recently, CNN published an article titled, “Why don’t men in favor of birth control speak up?” It pointedly asked:
…where in these recent debates are the voices of ordinary men? Why aren’t we hearing publicly even now from husbands who are not ready to have children they would have to support? Or from boyfriends who do not have the means to support a child?
I am one very ordinary man who absolutely, completely supports the birth control coverage requirement. I’m going to continue discussing this below, probably in far too much detail, but if you’re a man who supports birth control, please speak up. Say so on your blog or Tumblr or whatever. Say it on Facebook or Twitter. Write to your local newspaper. Seriously. Birth control is not just an issue for women.
Actually I wrote a helluva lot more than that. If you read the whole thing, you’ll see I talk about religion and Republicans and science and Scripture and all kinds of stuff. I used the letters “sex” at least 24 times.
In any case, I remain amazed at the politicization of this topic. The situation may actually be more acute than it was a year ago. Dads — or any parent, really — what say you?
| Luke: | [age 8] "I am not going to school today." |
| Me: | "Yes, you are." |
| Luke: | "No. I can't! I can't go to school today." |
| Me: | "You can't? Is something preventing you from going?" |
| Luke: | "I just can't." |
| Me: | "Did someone build a thousand-foot wall between here and school that we can't get around?" |
| Luke: | "No." |
| Me: | "Is there a moat full of hungry alligators around the school that will eat you if you try to get in?" |
| Luke: | "No, that's not what I mean." |
| Me: | "Has your school been mysteriously transported to the surface of Mars?" |
| Luke: | "No, none of that. I mean, I just can't go." |
| Me: | "I don't understand why. When you say 'can't', it sounds like you mean it is physically impossible. You know, like 'I can't fly up in the sky like a bird just by flapping my arms' -- that kind of 'can't'." |
| Luke: | "Well... technically nothing is impossible." |
| Me: | "Nothing?" |
| Luke: | "That's what the Bible says. All things are possible with God." |
| Me: | "Really? /All/ things? Even flying up into the sky?" |
| Luke: | "All things. Even flying." |
| Me: | "Just so I understand: nothing at all is impossible?" |
| Luke: | "Right. Nothing is impossible if you have God's help." |
| Me: | "So you /can/ go to school today?" |
| Luke: | "Oh, not that. Some things are only possible at certain times. And right now is one of those times when going to school really is impossible." |
| Me: | "I thought you said /nothing/ was impossible with God." |
| Luke: | "God has a time for everything, Dad." |
| [Scene: | bedtime for Beth, age 4] |
| Beth: | "There's one more thing I want to pray about!" |
| Mom: | "Go ahead." |
| Beth: | [clasps hands, closes eyes] "Dear God, please tell me if there is life on other planets. Amen." [lies down] |
| Mom: | "That's interesting. Okay. Time to go to sleep." |
| Beth: | [sits up suddenly] "Wait! He just told me: there /is/ life on other planets!" |
| Me: | "Oh? Did he say which planets?" |
| Beth: | "No. We still have to figure that out." |
| Luke: | [age 7] "I don't like it when Grandma talks to me about the Bible." |
| Mom: | "Oh? Why not?" |
| Luke: | "She never lets /me/ talk! And everything she says is true just because she says it. I can't ask questions. I don't mind talking religion but I don't like that." |