Reminder: Mother’s Day 2013 is almost here!

Like I did last year — and almost verbatim — let me remind you that Mother’s Day is this Sunday. Do something nice for your own mother, or the mother of your kids (even if that’s you), or pretty much any other mother you know. Being a parent is seriously hard work, and in much of the world, moms carry most of the parenting load.

Chocolate? Maybe. Flowers? Not a bad idea. Dinner? Better. But try this: there are a plethora of nonprofits who work with mothers around the world.  Consider donating to them in honor of a mom.  For example:

  • Check out the Plant a Flower campaign from EngenderHealth: plant a virtual flower for a mom (for free), and someone else will donate $5 to EngenderHealth’s international maternal health work (and they give you a cool personalized video too — better than last year’s, in my opinion).  C’mon: a couple of minutes of your time could mean $20 for a good cause.
     
  • Another great nonprofit is Women for Women International, which “supports women in war-torn regions with financial and emotional aid, job-skills training, rights education and small business assistance so they can rebuild their lives.” How cool is that? The chances of me doing that personally are pretty remote, but I’m happy to support someone else doing it.
     
  • World Vision notes here that moms prefer receiving gifts that help other people. A donation to one of these nonprofits in mom’s honor is one way of doing that. Or check out World Vision’s catalog and buy some poor family a goat.
     
  • There are plenty of other organizations worthy of your support. You may even have some who serve moms or women locally.

You don’t even have to leave your computer to get these things for a mom. Click over there and do some good! Seriously, what’s your excuse?

Luke: [age 8] "Mom, how old are you?"
Mom: "I'm 35."
Luke: "Really?"
Mom: "No, but once a woman gets to 35 years old, she doesn't get any older."
Luke: "Yeah? And once a man gets to 8 years old, HE doesn't get any older!"
Mom: "A lot of women would agree with you."
Me: "Hold on, there's something on your nose." [gets tissue] "Gross. It's a boy booger!"
Luke: [age 8] "Oh yeah? Look who's talking!"
Me: "I don't have boy boogers."
Luke: "But you're a boy!"
Me: "No, I'm a man. I have man boogers."
Luke: [giggling] "Man boogers?"
Me: "Yep. My boogers can beat up your boogers."
Luke: "MAN BOOGERS?!"
Mom: [popping head in the room] "What's all the laughing in here?"
Luke: "Dad has MAN BOOGERS!!"
Mom: [giving me The Look] "This is not helpful, dear."
Goodbye, ilovemazzyandzephyr

I’m reblogging this important news from thedaddycomplex:

Hey, everyone. Shannon of the popular Tumblr parenting blog ilovemazzyandzephyr had to delete her account.

She and her husband discovered someone had pilfered scores of photos of her kids and created an entire fake family with a Facebook page, a Tumblr, everything. She’s freaked out, the police are involved…

Read more here and here.

It’s a scary world, people. You will never see pictures of my kids here for situations just like this.

(reblog) You're Speaking My Language

I am reblogging this from thedaddycomplex:

Now, most toddlers understand complex grammar before they can say it, but my guys speak it, too. They have for quite some time. And I mean complete sentences with correct verb conjugations, gerund forms when necessary, proper pronouns and even the occasional compound preposition.

I don’t think this is because they are extremely intelligent (although, they totally are), but rather because my wife and I never spoke baby talk to them, not even when they were newborns. We never cooed or babbled or made goo-goo noises. From the moment they were born, we spoke to them like they were adults — little, screaming, poopy adults.

We’ve done pretty much the same thing. I think “baby talk” is bad. Talk to your kids like they are the people you want them to be. When they stumble or don’t understand the words, explain it gently.